We Know the Best Gift Ideas for Him & Men
Guys instinctively know what other guys like and are into. If he’s a car guy, a tech nerd, sporty or just a couch potato, other guys recognize precisely who they are and what would make them happy in terms of a gift. For girls buying gifts for guys, it’s always a little harder, especially if you’re just at the beginning of a relationship.
We all gift for different reasons, but deep down they all show a level of love and appreciation toward the receiver. Whether it’s for a birthday, or another special occasion, Christmas, or an appreciation of thanks, the act of giving shows someone cares and is unique to the giver.
There are some basic rules to remember when looking to gift a man with something they will really appreciate.
✓ Cost isn’t everything. You don’t have to spend a lot on a gift for a man to get appreciated. Buying something expensive isn’t something a man who is true to himself. The only type of man who will appreciate a costly gift for being expensive is one who is looking for a rich woman, usually to freeload. Remember, just because a gift may be expensive doesn’t make the giver more valuable to the person receiving the gift.
✓ Less is more. It’s better to give one well thought out gift to a man, rather than shower him with lots of gifts, as it reduces their value in his eyes. You can have too much of a good thing. Men like to think they are unique, and the volume of gifts doesn’t really give that impression.
It’s like a scattergun approach and says you haven’t really thought about him that closely, and discovered what he really wants, so you’ll give him all these options whether he likes them or not. It also gives the impression that by spending money on lots of presents you are improving your feeling of self-worth and taking on the provider role.
✓ Sentiment and practicality. Clothing, leather goods, and cologne are some of the staple gifts for men, but honestly, they are easy options, and it’s what men have come to expect from people who haven’t given gift-giving much thought.
Most men don’t give very much thought to buy clothes, or things that don’t have a clear purpose. If a gift doesn’t have a point to it, then most men will not appreciate it at all. If you have a long-standing relationship with a man, then you can consider something that is sentimental to you both as a gift. A specially commissioned photo of you both together is something that you will both cherish or even eternity rings.
✓ The less you know, the less you spend. If you don’t know the guy very well, maybe you’ve just started dating, or it’s a distant relation, and then consider a smaller present and not something that costs a lot. It’s the action and thought that goes into giving that’s important, not the present itself.
✓ On second thoughts don’t. If you are totally unsure whether to gift a guy or not, the answer is always don’t. If he’s just a casual acquaintance and you want to mark something such as a birthday, a card will suffice, no gift required.
Choosing a Gift Among Many
As we said earlier, a gift is a physical expression of the love or admiration you have for someone else. The act of giving can be fraught with potholes you need to avoid.
The importance of the occasion. Gifts are welcome at any time, but the significance of the event should have some bearing on the value and the size of the gift you give.
Romance vs practicality. Consider both the occasion and the man, and decide if the gift should be romantically linked or more of a practical nature. The symbol of a romantic gift is great when it is to someone who you have a relationship with, but for others, something more practical would be appropriate. Romantic gifts are always good for Valentine’s Day or birthdays, other times a more practical gift is likely to be more appreciated.
Novelty soon wears off. Novelty gifts should be left for parties, as their effect is always short-lived. It’s the sort of gift you give to friends to liven up a conversation and to make people laugh.
What’s interesting. You have to discover something about the guy’s interests. Is he into sports or cars, or tech, or even cooking/whiskey drinking? Whatever his interest, look to buy him a gift that you know he will appreciate. It will take a little research to get exactly the right gift, but it will be well worth it in the long run.
Look out for hints. If you know the man you intend to gift well, then he’s likely to talk about the things he’s interested in, and the practical things he needs to fulfill his life. They can be tools for working around the house, or something related to his sporting activity or a hobby. Just listen out and chat, you’ll be surprised how many ideas spring from the most innocent of conversations.
The fact you have listened to what he said and picked up on it, and then acted upon it will speak more about your relationship than simple words.
Friendly advice. If you don’t know the guy that well, maybe because you’ve just started a relationship, then try talking to his friends about what he’s interested in.
A quick conversation should be able to give you an insight into what he’s genuinely interested in and give you some inspiration for choosing a gift for him. A brainstorming session with his friends will be beneficial indeed. If you intend the gift to be a surprise, make sure all of his friends who know are sworn to secrecy.
Spontaneity. Getting a gift out of the blue will always bring a smile to the face of the recipient. The element of surprise makes whatever the gift something special. Even if it is just a small thing, the fact that it comes without warning shows a lot about how you care about the other person.
Quality is king. No matter if the gift you are buying is inexpensive or very expensive, the price is irrelevant compared to the quality. Always try and buy the best quality gift you can get on your budget.
Think outside the box. A gift does not have to be something tangible, something that comes in a box; it can also be an experience. Some of the greatest gifts you can buy are such things a trial flying lessons or time in a race car.
Event and experience packages make some of the most memorable gifts that will last a lifetime. You can always consider a shared experience, so it is something the two of you have in common forevermore.
Memories are made of this. If you have a relationship with the man, think about how you two have grown together, and consider gifts that bring back memories, like the time of your first date, or your first holiday together. Maybe you had an experience while dating that you want to relive.
It’s the thought that counts. The more time you spend thinking about a gift and making sure it’s perfect for your man the better. Investing time and effort into finding the perfect gift will be rewarded by a grateful recipient. It’s not the cost of the present that counts but the thought behind it.
Homemade heaven. Something made by your own hand for a man, says so much about your relationship. Not everyone can draw, or write poems or songs, but most people can have a go cooking a meal. Just doing something with your own hands as a present for you man shows it is heartfelt and meaningful to you both.
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