Mother of the Bride Gifts
10 Things to Consider When Looking at Mother of the Bride Gifts
1. Don’t overshadow the bride
Whether you are the bride or not, always remember to not overshadow the bride on her wedding day.
Not only is that disrespectful to the bride, but her mother will also feel very uncomfortable taking away any limelight on her daughter’s big day!
If you are the bride, you don’t need to worry about this. You do what feels right and give your mother whatever gift you want- she will love it!
2. It’s okay to be sentimental
Is there any better time to be sentimental than around the time of a wedding? It is okay to tap into your emotions when getting the perfect mother of the bride gift.
Consider framing your favorite picture of you both, or going back in time and finding old pictures that will remind her of how you were as a child. This will make her cry!
Make sure you give it to her before the day of the wedding (or if on the day of the wedding - not once she’s gotten her makeup done!).
3. Get her something for the day of
A great mother of the bride gift is to get her something she can wear on the big day where she is in fact the mother of the bride.
Obviously, she will already have her dress and shoes picked out, but a nice piece of jewelry that she can wear on the day of is incredibly thoughtful and she will always remember the day whenever she wears the jewelry again in the future.
Make sure you wait until she’s picked out her outfit so that you can get her something that will match!
4. Personalize it
No matter what gift idea you come up with, consider personalizing the gift to make it even more special.
Whether that means getting something engraved or monogrammed, either way, it adds a wonderfully unique touch to any item and ensures it is truly hers.
This also turns the gift into a keepsake from the wedding as well, which she will surely love.
5. Gift sets are great
When in doubt, a nice gift set can be the perfect way to say thank you to your mom.
Whether it is a perfume set, candles, or a spa set that will help her relax, this is a great idea that will come at just the perfect time.
After the stress of the wedding, she will need to take some time to relax!
6. Consider a mother/daughter gift
If you are the bride, consider getting something that has one part for you and one part for her. This is a very special gift idea that she will absolutely love.
Whether it is a two-piece necklace or bracelet set, or even matching rings or matching clothes, she will love that you and her both have the same thing.
A mother will always want to be close to her daughter, and a joint gift like this is an easy way to show that you will always want to be close to mom too!
7. Help her relax
This gets its own line because it is so important. As the mother of the bride, you are faced with a lot of tasks that can get stressful, not to mention having to deal with the emotions of seeing your daughter get married.
When it is all over, it will be time to relax! Whether you get her something to have a nice spa day at home, or if you treat her to a spa day out, either way, it will force her to take some time for herself, something she totally deserves.
8. Pop some bubbly
If your mother drinks alcohol, it makes for a great gift! Get her a nice bottle of champagne or wine to thank her for all she has done.
If you’re lucky, she’ll share it with you! Either way, it is a wonderful gift that she will certainly enjoy and appreciate, especially after all the stress of planning.
9. Send her flowers
Flowers are always a great option to send to mom! Thankfully, the flower industry has improved a lot over the years, so we recommend doing more than stopping by your local grocery store and grabbing the first thing you see.
What are her favorite flowers? Try to get her a flower bouquet that is specific to her and what she likes. It’ll be such a nice surprise when they come in the mail!
10. Include a handwritten element
Lastly, no matter what you get for the mother of the bride, consider adding in a handwritten element. And no, saying ‘I love you mom’ isn’t good enough!
Write her a short note or letter and express your appreciation for the work she has done. In all honesty, she will probably like this better than the actual gift itself.
Not only will she have this letter to hold onto, but she’ll also really feel loved and appreciated - and that is the whole point of getting her a gift!